Have you ever heard of the self-serving bias?
It’s the tendency to attribute our successes to ourselves and to blame our failures on outside factors. For example, you got your dream job because you were supremely qualified for it. Or, you didn’t get your dream job because the interviewer was prejudiced.
Now, consider your children’s successes and failures. How do you explain them?
People around the world vary considerably in their views about the causes of success in life, according to new data from Pew’s global attitudes survey.
Among economically developed societies, Americans are the least likely to say that success in life is determined by forces outside our control—only 40% of Americans attribute success to outside factors.
At the other end, South Koreans are the most likely to attribute success to outside forces—almost three of four (74%) do so.
Are Americans the least likely of all nations to attribute success to outside factors? That would be a good guess, since our core values include self-reliance and individualism. And, it’s a pretty good guess, according to Pew, but not entirely correct.
Of the 44 countries Pew surveyed, only four had a lower percentage than the U.S. of those who agreed that success in life is determined by outside forces: Columbia, Mexico, Venezuela, and Nicaragua. The first three are considered emerging economies, while the fourth is classified as a developing economy.
To what do you attribute your successes and failures?
When children don’t live up to our hopes, do we blame them—or outside factors?
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