Category Archives: His Lens/My Pen

His Lens/My Pen –– A Single Point of Light

 

There must be something in the air at the Song of the Morning retreat center in Vanderbilt, Michigan. The only two photos I have contributed to the His Lens/My Pen series were both from there. The first one was taken last fall. I captured the image above during a walk in the woods one spring morning. The river was flowing full and swiftly after an early morning rain shower; the trees above me were still shaking off its remnants. Then the clouds parted, the sun took prominence, and Mother Nature bestowed yet another gift of beauty. I stood mesmerized for nearly fifteen minutes. Pure visual magic as the water shattered shafts of sunlight into particles and set them to dancing in the currents of the river.

It’s so hard to walk lightly through our lives.  There are kids to worry about; health issues to contend with; relationships to sustain, mend, tend and sustain again. Jobs to seek, keep, and sometimes leap from or toward with all that attendant uncertainty. Not to mention the maelstrom of malevolence and mayhem streaming daily from our various screens electronic devices. As I study this photograph again and again, I realize that what makes the scene so extraordinary is the atomization of the light, each daub of sunlight is bouncing to its own rhythm. Sometimes that’s all we can do, too. Just be who we are – a single point of light interacting as best as we can with life’s inevitable flow.

Immerse yourself in the flow of this image by clicking on it. Share it with your friends on Facebook. Or order the card from my Etsy Shop.  Enjoy.

His Lens/My Pen #12 — These Geese Aren’t Silly

When I saw this goose couple that Martin snapped at a park in Virginia, I laughed out loud and wished I spoke goose, the better to understand what they might have been honking at one another. Sometimes Martin’s photos speak to me immediately (though not in goose). A lesson or meditation to accompany the image arrives swiftly.  This couple, however had me stymied.

What was the deeper wisdom waiting to be drawn from this shot?

I love the contrast in their goose necks and their postures because it looks like they are having one serious conversation. But while reaching for an accompanying text, I didn’t want to attribute rigidity to Mr. Goose on the right, nor submission to Ms. Goose on the left. See? Already I’m attributing rigidity and aggression to the gander and submission to the goose. I wanted to anthropomorphize this pair and their exchange, but did not want to make one the winner of the conversation and one the loser.     I returned to the image again and again, always coming up with um, a goose egg.

Then it hit me.  Both postures are ambiguous and open to interpretation. Is the goose on the left being submissive or flexible? What about the goose on the right? How many times is perceived rigidity more truthfully  maintaining one’s principles in the face of silliness or societal pressure. And just like that, the puzzle of what to say about this image cracked open.

We can be quick to judge when a “discussion” we are having isn’t going our way. We  might summon labels – rigid, unfeeling, wishy-washy, spineless – in hopes that such critical words will goad our partner into changing his or her position. This month’s His Lens/My Pen image is a reminder to keep the labeling at bay. To my eye, Ms. Goose and Mr. Gander are telling us to move past reflexive judgment, and strive to see a situation from a perspective other than our own.

Enjoy the geese in a larger format by clicking on the image.

Is there a teen in the house who mistakes your principles for rigidity? Or someone who needs reminding that being flexible on an important issue doesn’t mean caving? Order this card from my Etsy shop. The world can always use a little more understanding.

Take the Plunge!

During a rare break in the frigid Coldzilla winter this year, Martin and I walked to nearby Quarton Lake. We watched as one brave duck left his compatriots huddling on a shelf of ice and dove into the freezing water. Until he shared the photo with me, I’d forgotten that my husband had captured the moment.

“See what you might come up with for this one,” Martin said. I loved the image. It was so rich with possibilities, what with the ducks embodying all sorts of metaphorical human reactions to taking the plunge in life.

We’ve all been each of these ducks, haven’t we? Who of us hasn’t turned away, or watched from the sidelines of the dance floor, aching for the gumption to ditch our self-consciousness and rock out to the beat? Hopefully, more than hugging the shore or tucking head into wing, we have also headed out for adventure, paddling uncertainly perhaps yet gaining buoyancy and direction as we go forth. Whether it’s moving to a new city, leaving the comfort of a steady job to pursue a dream, embarking solo on vacation or speaking truths everyone else wants kept below the surface, there is always one brave duck who dives in first, hopefully inspiring others.  I no longer remember if or how many followed Mr. Mallard above but surely some did.

Is there a special duckling in your life who needs a bit of encouragement before taking the plunge?  Or a graduate who is ready to take flight? Head on over to my Etsy shop where this card and others are waiting for you. Or buck up your entire circle of friends in one fell swoop!  Send them a link to this column or post it on FB.

What’s going to be your take-the-plunge-moment this week? Dive in and share the time you held back. What did you learn? How did you use the lesson to modify your life?

His Lens/My Pen #10: Row Your Boat

Martin saw this sweet little boat tethered behind a house on the canal in Venice, California. What caught my eye? Those caned backrests, such a hospitable adaptation for comfortable boating. I got to thinking about what it means to go rowing with someone.  I could take this metaphor all the way to the Pacific Ocean and back. Consider: how much smoother the ride when the right person’s rowing with you; how crucial it is to match strokes so you reach your desired destination with a minimum of turbulence; how rowing partners share some dreams yet pursue others solo in untested waters. The reflections flow on and on.

What about you? Where is your boat pointed today? Who’s rowing with you?

Is a friend or loved one about to embark upon a journey? Or a dream? Send them this card in celebration, and encourage them to keep rowing till they are exactly where they want to be. And if you live near the Birmingham Bloomfield Art Association in Michigan, they are now available in the BBAC’s gallery!

His Lens/My Pen #9: Finding Inner Stillness

 

As you know from the third image in the His Lens/My Pen–A Perspective on Truth–I sometimes rotate images to find a deeper insight. When I saw Martin’s shot of this egret chillin’ on the beach in Santa Monica, I thought things might get interesting if I turned the image upside down.

How often do we feel like that bird, all razzed and frazzed on the outside, reaching out everywhere for a way to calm down. Next time it happens, summon up this ol’ bird on the beach and dive beneath the surface. But don’t hold your breath.

Breathe! Stillness awaits.

If the spirit moves you, please share this month’s His Lens/My Pen with friends and loved ones. And if you’re so moved, jot me a note about how you access your inner stillness. We can all learn from each other.

His Lens/My Pen #8: Steady in Flight

As with last month’s image, Martin captured this when he was on his own. He was in Florida taking a multi-mile bike ride in Everglades National Park while I was on the other coast visiting our son Elliot. I think next to flowers, birds are his favorite subject to photograph. This amazing anhinga reminds me to stay in the moment and focus on the task at hand. It also reminds me that next time he goes to the Everglades, I’m going too!

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If you’re new to this His Lens/My Pen series, it’s pretty simple. My husband snaps the shots and I write the words.  Go to HisLensMyPen.com and enjoy some of the images you may have missed. Join in this week’s discussion: When and how do you achieve mindfulness?  Remind your friends to be mindful today: Share this link with them on Facebook!

Searching for an image to focus on in meditation? This anhinga in flight could be perfect for you or your favorite meditator. Order this card from my Etsy shop and begin the journey toward mindfulness. If you live near the Birmingham Bloomfield Art Center in Michigan it, and others in the series, are available in the BBAC’s gallery.

His Lens/My Pen #7: Simplicity

Martin was visiting Colonial Fort Michilimackinack (circa 1700’s) in Mackinaw City, Michigan a summer or two ago when he took this shot. I just love it.  The contrast of the clean white shirt hanging slightly askew against the weathered grey wood. The wooden pegs, with one left over. The slight strip of green of grass echoing the mossy knots in the planks. Martin was drawn to the image not only for its visual charm, but for what it evoked: simpler times, harsher times, times when clothing was made by hand from threads hand spun and hand woven. Above all it’s the simplicity of this image that always catches my heart. Even when I’m not with him, the photos he takes make sure that I don’t miss out.

Click on the image to see it in a much larger version.

If you’re new to this His Lens/My Pen series, it’s pretty simple. My husband snaps the shots and I write the words.  Go to HisLensMyPen.com and enjoy some of the images you may have missed. Join in this week’s discussion: what simple act of housekeeping gives you pleasure? Make your friends happy today; share this link with them on Facebook!

Want to spruce up your laundry room? Order this card from my Etsy shop. Or send it to someone who also appreciates the simplicity of tasks well done. And if you live in Michigan, this, and other images in the series, is available at the Birmingham Bloomfield Arts Center.