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‘I hope readers who generously pick up this book will see themselves in my stories.’
‘Our details may be different, but our desires are universal. We all hunger, yearn, lament and remember.’
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EDITOR’s NOTE: Lynne Golodner has been a colleague of our publishing house since the day we were founded in 2007. She published one of her earlier books with us, Flavors of Faith: Holy Breads. She now runs her own hybrid publishing house and continues to help many writers to find their voices. As we approach her latest book release, especially because this is a deeply personal book, we invited Lynne to write for our readers about what she hopes you will find in these new pages. Please enjoy this personal column and consider ordering one of Lynne’s books—and share this good news with friends via the social-media sharing buttons that accompany this column.
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By LYNNE GOLODNER
Author and Marketing Expert at LynneGolodner.com
I woke early each morning to record the audiobook for my new collection of essays, Forest Walk on a Friday: Essays on home, love and finding my voice at midlife. Early morning was the best time to avoid background noise in the audio files: no traffic on the sleeping streets, no one stirring in the rooms of my house. And as I leaned close to the microphone and recited the words of sentences and paragraphs from essays I’d crafted years earlier, I revisited versions of myself and experiences from my past.
I was excited. Melancholy. Reverent. Embarrassed.
I’d poured it all onto the page—everything, in perfect detail, moments I’d loved and moments I’m grateful to have made it through. I pulled back the curtain on my failed first marriage, my ten years as an Orthodox Jew, my life after I left the strictures of observance to define for myself what being Jewish would mean. I spilled it all onto the page for all to see in the glaring daylight.
Was I crazy to be so honest with the great, wide world? Would people judge me unfavorably? Would the topics and themes and emotions of my life resonate with readers?
And then I remembered the words of Anne Lamott: “If something inside of you is real, we will probably find it interesting, and it will probably be universal. So you must risk placing real emotion at the center of your work.”
As I finished the audio recordings and sent them off for packaging, I reflected on this new book, my eleventh, and my first collection of essays, many of which I’d shared previously with the public by submitting them for publication in magazines and literary journals.
And I knew that it was going to be alright.
Because when we share from a deep well of emotion, honestly and without pretense, we connect on a very human level. I’ve always been an open book, in friendships and in my writing. I have nothing to hide. I’ve lived a lot of years and my experiences have varied from mundane to adventurous, and the truth is that every single person is looking for inspiration and courage to be daring and different.
So I was ok with my decision to collect 28 essays into a book with themes connecting them. This is a brave and daring step in a world where people are canceled and judged all too easily. My desire to connect on a deep level with other deep-feeling people empowered me to take the risk of critical feedback, which always comes whenever we publish.
Gord Downie, the late singer and songwriter from the Canadian band The Tragically Hip, said what I hope will happen for readers of this book: “When I write, I give people access to their own emotions.”
In Forest Walk, I hope readers are interested, intrigued and introspective. Upon reading about my travels to India, Bali, Scotland, and the self-growth that happens when visiting an unfamiliar place. When I detail the practice of family purity that I observed as an Orthodox Jew, I hope readers gain understanding about mysterious, or strange, rituals—and find compassion when I explain why I left that way of life, eventually.
When I write of my deep love for my children, my parenting missteps, and moments of redemption with my children, I hope readers relate to the nuances of parenting and forgive themselves as I try to. When I make my grandmother’s chicken soup or bite into a corned beef sandwich in memory of my father, I hope readers remember someone dear to them, and the little things they can do to bring memories of their beloveds flooding back.
This book gathers several decades of my life in its pages—the early years of trying to decipher who I am and who I want to be, finding my way in relationships and building the courage to not need a partner. And then the awakening, the midlife coming-into-myself that allows for deep and lasting love, calm and patient understanding of the twists and turns of living.
If I’m honest, I hope readers who generously pick up this book will see themselves in my stories. Our details may be different, but our desires are universal. We all hunger, yearn, lament and remember. The art form of the personal essay, in its specificity and details, is the most universal way to connect over the twists and turns of living.
Anais Nin said, “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.” Sometimes we don’t want to return to those moments. Sometimes we’ve moved so far past that calling them up forces us to face uncomfortable truths. But we do it anyway and are better for it.
This new book contains so many old stories. Versions of who I used to be—not the me that lives and leads today. This collection honors my personal evolution and the power we all have to become better versions of ourselves. So in a way, it’s an homage to what was, and a song of gratitude for the chance to do better.
And, it’s a journey I hope readers will take back to themselves, too.
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Care to learn more?
Lynne Golodner is a Michigan-based author, writing coach and marketing entrepreneur. There are many ways to “meet” her. Sign up for her Rebel Author Newsletter. Visit her website at https://lynnegolodner.com. Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn
There’s a virtual launch event for Forest Walk on a Friday. Follow this link to register for that event at 11 a.m. ET on Thursday January 30.
Lynne also is a popular novelist. Earlier, we highly recommended her novels. Here’s a link to our 2023 story about Woman of Valor. Then, here’s a link to our 2024 story about her novel Cave of Secrets.
Her novels are available wherever quality books are sold. For Amazon, go to Cave of Secrets or Woman of Valor.
We also highly recommend that first novel and hHere’s a link to our 2023 story about Woman of Valor.
One of Lynne’s earlier nonfiction books is Flavors of Faith: Holy Breads, which explores a wide range of bread traditions related to religious communities—with recipes. That book is produced by our ReadTheSpirit publishing house.
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